Phong tuc cuoi thuan Viet cua nguoi xa xu

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Voi nhieu gia dinh nguoi Viet sinh song tai nuoc ngoai, dam cuoi la dip de ca moi nguoi quay quan ben nhau, cung to chuc le cuoi theo phong tuc que nha.

>> Dam cuoi noi cua Phat tren dat My

Tai nhieu dat nuoc co dong nguoi Viet sinh song nhu My, Canada, Australia, Nga... viec chuan bi dam cuoi theo phong cach truyen thong la dieu khong may kho khan. Cac co dau chu re co the de dang mua duoc nhung do le cho cac ngay cham ngo, an hoi, ruoc dau khong khac nhieu so voi o Viet Nam. Voi nhung gia dinh song tai khu vuc it nguoi Viet, cac mon do cuoi truyen thong co the phai dat tu cac cua hang o xa, tham chi mua tu Viet Nam mang sang. Nhung du chuan bi de dang hay co doi chut kho khan, nhung gia dinh Viet tai nuoc ngoai van co gang to chuc cuoi theo nghi thuc truyen thong bao gom: an hoi va don dau.

Co dau Ngoc Thy, hien song tai bang California (My) cho biet, co da tham du mot so dam cuoi nguoi Viet tai My va nhan thay cac nghi le truyen thong luon duoc nhung doi uyen uong cung nhu gia dinh gin giu. Trong le cuoi, le an hoi va le don dau thuong duoc gop chung mot ngay hoac to chuc kha gan nhau de dam cuoi dien ra nhanh chong, don gian. Chu re muon sang hoi cuoi co dau cung phai chuan bi cac le vat, cac mam trap nhu dam cuoi o Viet Nam.

Hon le cua nguoi Viet o xa que huong co tiec tra, la nghi le co dau chu re thap huong ra mat to tien, moi tra cha me de to long kinh trong. Sau tiec tra nho o gia dinh, le thanh hon thuong duoc to chuc tai chua hoac cac dia diem da dinh san truoc su chung kien cua gia dinh, ban be. Le cuoi tai chua duoc goi la le Hang Thuan va thuong duoc nhieu gia dinh nguoi Viet xa xu ua chuong trong cach thuc to chuc dam cuoi, vi ho cho rang ket hon tai chua se dem den hanh phuc ben lau cho doi uyen uong.

Moi doc gia cung tham khao mot dam cuoi truyen thong cua nguoi Viet tai My bao gom tiec tra va le Hang Thuan:

Cac doi uyen uong o nuoc ngoai thuong chon sac mau truyen thong cho dam cuoi nhu mau hong, mau do.

Le an hoi, thanh hon luon co su tham gia cua ca hai ben gia dinh.

Voi nhung gia dinh co goc la nguoi mien Nam, le cuoi van giu duoc phong tuc truyen thong la thap den cay (nen) tren ban tho.

Trong le an hoi va tiec tra, co dau thuong dien ao dai truyen thong de giu dung phong tuc cuoi Viet Nam.

Co dau duoc cha me chong tang qua cuoi de cau mong cuoc song doi uyen uong se sung tuc, hanh phuc.

Tiec tra la nghi le co dau chu re dang tra moi cha me, the hien long hieu thao va kinh trong cua con cai toi cac bac phu mau.

O nhieu nuoc dong nguoi Viet sinh song, viec chuan bi cac vat pham, le vat cuoi hoi truyen thong khong gap nhieu kho khan.

Ca ngoi nha ngap tran trong khong gian tuoi tan, tran ngap mau sac dam cuoi.

Sau le cung to tien tai gia, doi uyen uong to chuc le thanh hon tai chua.

Co dau chu re trong nghi le Hang Thuan tai chua.

Linh Pham
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