Ung ho nhung nguoi khac

Quy tac 4.3

Moi nguoi dang ngoi uong ca phe va chuyen sang chu de ve cau Adam. Adam la cai gai trong mat moi nguoi. Cau ta khong hoan thanh cong viec tham chi con tron viec, an trom but va kep giay.

Cau ta an noi tho lo voi moi nguoi, luon co gang dun day het viec cho nguoi khac, do loi cho nguoi khac, noi chung that la dang ghet! Vi vay tat ca moi nguoi ca than sau lung cau ta va giai toa duoc nhieu buc xuc ra khoi dau.

Nhung ban se khong lam the. Nguoi khac co the, nhung ban thi khong, tu nay ve sau se luon nhu vay. Bay gio ban da la nguoi tuan thu luat choi va ban se ung ho nguoi khac.

Du cau Adam kia co dang ghet the nao di chang nua thi ban cung se tim duoc mot dieu gi tot dep de noi ve cau ta. Do chinh la muc dich cua ban - du the nao cung phai tim dieu gi do tot dep de noi.

Dieu nay ban dau co ve kho khan, nhung neu ban kien tri thi cang ngay no se cang de dang - do chi la van de ve thoi quen va thai do tinh than. Neu chung ta co thoi quen keu ca va phan nan thi chung ta se luon nhu vay. Nhung neu chung ta thay doi quan diem thi chung ta co the suy nghi tich cuc hon. Tuy nhien, de lam duoc dieu nay thi ban dau cung can no luc mot chut.

Ung ho nguoi khac du cho co viec gi xay ra se lam ban tro thanh nguoi luon tim duoc dieu gi tot dep o tat ca moi nguoi. Chinh vi vay, nhung nguoi ma ban dang le co the phan nan ve ho biet rang chinh ban se luon luon chien dau bao ve ho. Dieu do se dem lai cho ban su trung thanh bat thanh van va su bao ve tu nhung thanh vien “bat hao” nhat cua cong ty.

Day la mot moi quan he ky la nhung mang lai nhieu dieu bat ngo. Do se la nhung nguoi ung ho ban trong truong hop khan cap. Ho se noi cho ban biet neu co ai do muon gay kho de voi ban. Ho se co gang het suc vi ban boi ho biet ban quan tam den ho. Neu ban can duoc giup do, ho se la nguoi ban co the trong cay.

That dang kinh ngac la tin don ve viec ban la nguoi tot bung se lan truyen rat nhanh - ban khong keu ca, ban khong phan nan, ban luon dung canh nguoi yeu the, luon thong cam va luon it nhat tim duoc mot dieu tot dep tu con nguoi toi te nhat.

Ro rang la ban se phai lam nhung dieu nay mot cach chan that. Bia dat hay noi doi chang tot dep gi. Neu ban dau ban khong tim duoc diem tot tu nguoi khac thi hay im lang. Tuy nhien se luon luon co dieu gi tich cuc de noi vi chang ai hoan toan la quy du, xau xa hay doc ac.

Quay lai truong hop cau Adam tren. Ban se noi gi day? Ban co the bat dau bang viec khen cau ta pha ca phe rat ngon, hoac cau ta luon di lam dung gio. Cung co the khen cau ta co tai phuc vu cac vi khach hang kho tinh nhat, cau ta co khieu hai huoc dang ne hoac cau ta luon biet ket qua tran bong da. Hay luon luon noi “cau ta cung tot day chu, boi vi…”.