Khong chiu noi bo me chong

Toi la mot nguoi vo, mot nguoi con dau nhu rat nhieu nguoi phu nu khac. Toi tung duoc chong yeu, chong thuong het muc. Nhung sau khi sinh con, moi viec doi voi toi da thay doi hoan toan.

Toi song cung bo me chong voi hai ly do: cac cu rat quy chong toi vi anh la nguoi con trai ngoan, yeu quy bo me het long. Dieu do khong co o cac anh chi khac. Vay la toi bat dau cuoc song lam dau, khong phai thuc khuya day som nhu ngay xua cac cu lam dau nua nhung toi van cam nhan that ro hai tu "Con dau".

Toi khong hop bo me chong ve moi mat, tu viec an uong, chi tieu den quan niem song. Tu ngay cac cu ve song cung, toi thay cuoc song bi bach va kho chiu vo cung.

Toi khong luc nao cam thay thoai mai voi bat cu viec gi ma cac cu lam. Khong ke het ra duoc nhung toi co the noi the nay:

1. Ve an uong: rau muong luoc phai co ca chua, canh hen khong nau chua, canh cua thi khong an rau, canh ca thi vo cung nhieu hanh, thi la. Thit rang thi khong hanh nhung lai nhieu xi dau va tat ca deu nhat thech.

2. Ve chi tieu: me chong toi la nguoi co bao nhieu tieu het bay nhieu, co muon van ly do de tieu tien, toi khong the ke het duoc. Nhung mot ly do noi bat la thich the hien voi moi nguoi minh la nguoi tu te, co tien, con cai minh la nhung nguoi thanh dat kiem duoc tien. Tat ca cac khoan chi tieu cua me chong toi la do chong toi chi ra. Trong khi chong toi la nguoi con tot, khong bao gio tiec bat cu mot yeu cau nao. Ma me chong toi thi luon vung tay qua tran. Khong co tien nhung lai tieu tien rat hang.

3. Ve quan he: Me chong toi luc nao cung so nguoi kia nghi minh the nay the no, nen luc nao cung cu co gang lam hai long tat ca moi nguoi cuoi cung cha hai long ai ca. Nha co hai dau, hai re thi co 3 nguoi lam me chong toi khong hai long cung la nhung nguoi me chong toi da song cung trong khoang vai nam do la anh re ca, chi dau ca va toi. Anh re thu hai thi me toi chua bao gio song cung nen cung khong thay che bai gi.

4. Moi viec trong nha me chong toi luon tu dua ra quyet dinh ke ca viec an mac cua con toi nhu the nao. Con toi con be ti, hai ong ba o lo viec nha va cham dua chau 1 tuoi ma luc nao toi o nha cung thay ba tat bat trong den la toi nghiep. Cung bang ay viec minh toi o nha cung khong tat bat nhu the.

5. Con toi om. Ong ba cung cu doi lam theo y minh, quyet dinh cho di bac si, quyet dinh cho uong thuoc. Ma toan theo kinh nghiem khong phai dan gian ma la kinh nghiem cua ong ba. Toi buc nhat la chuyen mau thuan trong viec cham con toi.

6. Toi la nguoi sach se, luc nao cung so ban the ma ong ba con so toi nau an khong chin va rua bat khong sach. Vi du ran suon, toi cho vao dau ran luon, ong ba cu doi phai do nuoc vao dun cho ky len, the thi con gi la suon ran nua, cac mon suon cua ong ba nau co mui rat so, Toi khong the an duoc. Con rua bat, ba rua thi con ca rau va com tren bat ma toi rua sach bong co dieu thoi gian nhanh hon ba thi ba so ban.

Noi ra thi nhieu ly do lam, nhung no cu vun vat va don nen lai nen rat kho chiu vo cung. Toi da len tieng va chong toi muon chia tay. Toi khong biet phai lam gi day, moi nguoi hay cho toi loi khuyen. Con toi moi duoc co mot tuoi, toi khong co nha rieng, thu nhap cua toi chi hon 4 trieu dong mot thang. Lieu toi co the xoay so duoc voi bang ay so tien de chi tieu cho hai me con voi tat ca cac khoan thue nha an uong duoc khong?(Hoai Anh).

Van de ban ban khoan cung la chuyen nan giai cua rat nhieu nguoi. Tuy nhien de giai quyet trong truong hop cua ban, dau tien can lam sang ro mot so van de sau:

Ban cam thay kho chiu voi cach an uong chi tieu va ung xu cua bo me chong, dac biet la me chong va ban da len tieng. Nhung ban khong noi ro ban da len tieng nhu the nao. Neu ban len tieng mot cach kheo keo te nhi va thuyet phuc chong cung trao doi de me chong thay doi chut it thi toi nghi moi chuyen se on.

Tuy nhien neu ban to tieng hoac con buong loi bat nha voi bo me chong thi bat ky mot nguoi dan ong nao cung khong the chap nhan ban a. Neu ban thay hanh dong cua minh co doi chut hoi thai qua nen chu dong xin loi bo me chong va chong.

Con viec chong ban doi chia tay, ban nen trao doi voi anh ay, co le trong luc tuc gian anh ay noi vay cho do tuc cu that su anh ay khong muon vay.

Ban than men, ngay xua cac cu con doi hoi su gat gao voi con dau nhieu hon nhung nhieu cap vo chong nho vay ma cam thong va yeu thuong nhau hon chu khong de dang tu bo nhau. Vay tai sao ban khong dua vao do de that chat hon tinh yeu thuong vo chong, hy sinh vi nhau luc nay. Neu ban co gang vuot qua, co le anh ay se yeu va ton trong ban hon nhieu.

Hy vong nhung goi y cua chung toi se giup ban phan nao tim ra cach giai quyet cho minh mot cach hop ly nhat.

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