Lam gi khi be hay can

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Tu 1 tuoi, be thich kham pha dieu gi xay ra sau moi hanh dong, vi du, dap thia vao noi se co am thanh, tha do choi ra ngoai cui, do roi xuong dat. Va khi can ai do, be se thich thu vi thay ho la het va nhay choi choi.

De tim cach kiem soat con khong can nguoi khac, dau tien ban can phai tim hieu xem tai sao be lai hay can.

Tai sao tre can?

Be muon kham pha. Cac be tu 0 toi 3 tuoi thuong tim hieu ve the gioi xung quanh thong qua cac giac quan nhu so, nem, nghe, ngui. Neu ban cho be mot mon do choi, no se dua vao mieng. Cac be chua thuc su hieu su khac biet giua gam do choi va can nguoi khac.

Be moc rang. Be moc chiec rang dau tien trong khoang tu 4 toi 7 thang tuoi. Khi nuou bat dau nut, be se cam thay kho chiu va muon nhai mot thu gi do. Doi khi, do vat ma be "nhai" la ban.

Muon gay su chu y. Dieu nay thuong xay ra voi cac be tren 1 tuoi. Khi khong duoc cha me quan tam hang ngay, tre tim cach gay chu y. Va viec can nguoi khac cung nham muc dich do.

Bat chuoc nguoi khac. Cac em be tren 1 tuoi thich bat chuoc. Doi khi be nhin thay nguoi khac can va muon thu xem sao. Neu ban can lai nham trung phat tre, ban da vo tinh day be no duoc quyen lam the.

Be muon doc lap. Tre tu 1 toi 3 tuoi luon muon tim kiem su doc lap. "Cai nay cua con" hoac "De con lam" la nhung cum tu be thich dung. Can la mot hanh dong day suc manh de dieu khien cha me, ong ba. Neu muon lay mot mon do choi hoac "duoi" ban cung choi ve, can giup be nhanh chong dat duoc muc dich.

Be that vong. Tre em chua biet dieu khien co the minh va chua biet noi nhieu nen gap kho khan khi muon nguoi khac giup do. No cung chua biet cach choi cung ban be va su dung tu ngu de dien dat cac cam xuc cua minh. Vi the, be tim cach can, danh hoac day nguoi khac.

Be cang thang. Neu khong co viec thich thu de lam, nguoi lon khong choi cung hay nguoi than trong gia dinh mat, cha me ly di, chuyen nha moi hoac me sinh em, be se cam thay cang thang. Can la hanh dong the hien cam xuc va giai toa cua be.

Ban co the lam gi?

Dau tien, ban hay tra loi day du cac cau hoi: Khi nao be can nguoi khac, ai la nan nhan? Be hay can o dau? Dieu gi xay ra truoc hoac sau khi be can? Sau do, thuc hien cac buoc sau:

Co gang "phong benh"

- Neu thay be can nguoi khac la do moc rang, ban co the mua cho con mot chiec gam nuou mem.

- Neu be can boi met moi hoac doi, ban thu xem lai nhung cong viec hang ngay de giup con nghi ngoi va an uong du hon.

- Neu be can ban cung choi vi bon tre tranh gianh nhau mot mon do, ban co the mua them mon tuong tu. Tre em duoi 3 tuoi chua thuc su hieu ve khai niem chia se. Be chua co ky nang thuong luong hoac nhin nhan theo quan diem cua nguoi khac.

- Neu con can voi muc dich gay chu y, ban thu danh nhieu thoi gian cho con: Om be, doc truyen hoac cung nhau lan qua lan lai tren san nha hon la trach mang, ray la.

- Neu tre cang thang do nhung chuyen xay ra trong gia dinh, ban co gang thu xep nep nha cang giong truoc cang tot. Thong thuong, cac hoat dong nhu thu gian trong bon tam, choi nan dat set... se giup giai toa cang thang tot.

Day tre cach xu su moi

Khi be can, ban co the dung giong noi va net mat bieu lo cho con thay lam the khong chap nhan duoc. Ban can nhe nhang nhung cuong quyet va nhin thang vao mat con. Vi du, ban co the noi "Khong! Tun, con khong duoc can ban. Bi dang khoc vi dau day. Me khong muon con can Bi va cac ban". Neu be biet noi, ban co the bao con: "Con co the noi voi Bi ve y dinh cua minh de ban di ra cho khac chu dung can ban. Con co the noi: Joh, di ra cho khac de to choi cho nay".

Ban cung co the cung be giup "nan nhan" rua vet thuong, bang gac va vo ve no. Cung be an ui nan nhan cung la mot cach tot de day tre hieu hanh vi co the chap nhan duoc.

Bat cu khi nao be khong kiem soat duoc ban than, ban co the hoan cuoc choi hoac cach ly con vao cho khac de no binh tinh, sau do, hai me con cung trao doi ve hanh vi cua tre.

(Theo Lam Cha Me)

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